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Let me just say thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I am humbled and I am grateful for your presence, so now, let’s get into this article today we’re going to be talking about narcissist and exactly what a narcissist personality disorder is. One of the several type of disorders, of course, is the nurses system one. It is definitely a mental condition where people have an inflated sense of their own importance and a deep need for excessive attention.

Admiration with troubled relationships and the lack of empathy flip anything other than themselves, but behind the mask of an empath is string. Confidence, physics, his or her extreme confidence lies in a fragile self-esteem, that’s vulnerable to the slightest criticism. A narcissistic personality disorder person causes problems in many areas of life, such as your relationships, work, schools, financial affairs just having relationships, you know intimate or even social relationships or online relationships.

People who are narcissists generally, you know basically miserable unhappy and for the most part I find them most of them to be to feel some kind of disappointment. You know from childhood or disappointment if they feel like they’re, not giving getting special treatment or admiration that they believe they deserves. A narcissistic person has a lot of you owe me attitudes or you know I deserve it. Attitudes and in some cases some folks do deserve things, but a narcissist will take it up.

Just ten notches you may find, or they may find, that narcissistic behavior in relationships. Very unfulfilled and no one enjoys basically, I don’t know anyone who enjoys being around the narcissist, the the the treatment of a person with a narcissistic disorder centers around. Basically, there is no medical treatment or anything like that. You got to talk that thing out and figure out why you do what you do.

You have to sit down with a psychotherapist, not no psych, didn’t listen! This ain’t, no, a life coach type situation. Most narcissists need someone that could think three steps ahead of them. In order to be able to help them, you definitely have to have some in pathetic gifts. You definitely need some knowledge behind it to deal with narcissus if you’re planning to help treat or even deal with the narcissus, because if you don’t know what you’re dealing with you can become very very frustrating.

Are you dealing with the narcissus? I don’t know this. Let’s look at it, they usually have an exaggerated self self sense of importance, a sense of entitlement, even they expect others to recognize them and and they think they are superior than others even when they haven’t achieved anything to be superior than others uh again they have An exaggerated sense of achievement and talents in true to form they may have accomplished all of these great things, but a narcissus is going to put 20 on 10 every single time they want to, like, I said, be recognized as superior they’re preoccupied with ideas of grandeur And fantasy is about power and brilliance and beauty and being a perfect person, perfect female male, whatever they are exaggerated in every expense of the word.

A lot of narcissism preoccupied, I mean totally preoccupied with beautifying themselves. Most narcissists believe that they are superior to everyone else and actually no one can even equal who they are trust me, it’s a true fact. They monopolize all conversations. You see, folks that just come in and they jump they jump right in the conversation and it’s all about them and it all turns to them and you look it.

They love to belittle other people and look down at people make them feel inferior. So every conversation will start with I’m higher than you are most of them, like I said, monopolize the common little people, it can become very very sad. Most nurses expect some type of favoritism. I was looking at the movie a little girl last night and let me tell you something if you want to see what a true narcissist look at look like read that movie with Regina Hall in it.

I believe it’s called little and she’s transformed into a 13 year old, but with the same personality of an adult narcissism and basically her childhood immature. All of her childhood and immature characteristics are magnified to the 20th degree and her narcissistic ways are definitely put on point, and then I threw me at the end of course, called out and make she’s making she made changes. But of course those changes are not easily.

Most narcissist narcissists have picked this up from childhood, or they picked this up from a time in place where they’ve never been able to come out of. So it’s not going to be easy to stop being a narcissist and stop thinking of oneself as the end. All and to be all the Alpha and the Omega the beginning and the end of everything most narcissists take advantage of other people, because they know that they can.

They had the inability and the unwillingness to recognize the needs and feelings of others they just won’t. They will they were not. Not only will they not validate your feelings, but they will then invalidate who you are by not validating your, even even the ability for you to even have a filling in regards to who they are they’re, often envious of others and the envy actually shows. If you are aware of what and who you are dealing with, they have no boundaries whatsoever.

Most behave arrogantly hotsy. We know a haughty spirit comes before fall. They come across as being conceded or boastful and as hell to be very honest, then, to still have the best of everything and that’s alright. If you can get the best of everything the narcissistic behavior comes in, when you are not only not deserving, but don’t have those things like the best car, the best office, the best clothes, the best cameras, the best whatever, and but in your mind it is the Best thing: if that’s the best way, it works for you it that you know it’s perfectly fine.

At the same time, people with narcissistic personality disorders have trouble handling anything they perceived as criticism and and and to be very honest, as I always end with you guys, whenever I find myself in confrontation with others or within the first thing I do is make sure I am NOT being narcissistic, I have checkers, I have things in place to make sure, because the thing is when you’re impact, it’s you happen to be.

You happen to know a lot of different things and and you’re that way, because you need to help a lot of different people and most people will not get that about you and they will see that as pure weakness. They will see that as pure idiotic see and you capin and and – and that is completely from so far removed from what an impact truly is. But that’s all the narcissist can see is that light is no longer shining on them.

But someone who is actually trying to do something for the greater good. So you know criticism doesn’t work well with the narcissist. They become angry impatient mmm. They believe they are receiving poor treatments. They have significant significant interpersonal problems and are easily easily feel slighted. They react with rage, I’m in complete rage and contempt if they have the slightest feeling of the little bit where they think others are seeing them as less superior than who they think they are be careful read out cuz that flame is going to fly.

That rage is coming, most nurses have a difficult, difficult regulating their emotions and their behaviors. They can’t get balanced on with it, their emotions and behaviors never line up with what should actually be taking place for a particular situation again putting 20 on 10 most nurses. This experienced major problems dealing with stress and adapting to change. I mean please, don’t move anything out of place, they feel depressed and moody because they fall short of perfectionism it.

You know for narcissists the look in the mirror from the more from the moment they get up, they get dressed put on their clothes, walk out the door before all of that happens, then there there are so many things that have to take place because they have To be superior than any other person in the room and if they aren’t, they feel like they fell short of being perfect. They feel that they feel secretly ashamed or insecure or vulnerable or humiliated, but instead of of of taking those things and just dealing with them right there, they tend to push down their feelings and the narcissus arise and just like a soda that explodes once it’s shaken Up, it’s never a good place to be now.

I don’t have anything bad to say about narcissus, and I know it sounds like a negative article, but the purpose and intent of this article is for you to not only recognize if you are dealing with the narcissus. So that you can respond to Corley accordingly, but to also recognize if you are the narcissus, so that you can get help because, honestly, like I said there is no medication, there is nothing to take for being narcissistic.

There is no treatment and most narcissists aren’t likely to seek treatment everyone anyway. That’s why there’s nothing to take for it. They don’t even realize that they have this problem being the end-all to be all and superior than everybody else, and if you ever suggested to them, please please no. It will be perceived as a complete insult. It’s a it’s a complete insult against their self-esteem, and you are now disrespecting the very core of who they are, but I am here to tell you I don’t mind if you are narcissism, you need help.

You need to be on a couch, preferably not this one. As I said in my disclaimer, but you definitely definitely want to recognize the things about you and seek the proper guidance, because one thing I known I’ve, if, if one thing I do know is – and I’ve known for many years, it’s hard when a narcissist Falls. It’s like when it uh-oh comes down. Okay, sorry for this thing, but it is extremely hard when a narcissist is false, because all of that pride and arrogance falls down.

I mean it’s a heavy hard fall and I hate to see anyone go down that path if they will just realize that recognize the behaviors and things we need to change about ourselves, there’s nothing wrong with admitting realizing and recognizing who you are and what you need To change or become to be a better person in this life, I don’t know how many times I hear articles after articles every single day, I’m not changing.

This is the way I am, and that is that – and I am happy for you, sir, for you man, but for me, if there’s any place that I can improve my life or if there’s anything, I can share to help others improve their life, not to be Better than others, but just to have a better way of living so that you aren’t always operating in survival and struggle mode that you are now operating and thrive and living mood hey.

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Jaron Lanier On Why You Should Delete Your Social Media | The View

Please welcome author of ten arguments for deleting your social media accounts right now. Jaron Lanier the book lays out 10 really great ideas of how we can take care of ourselves, but you say that the media companies have one goal in mind and that’s to change our behavior.

What does that mean? Yeah? Ok, so you know how these services are free. You log on to Facebook, it’s free, so the reason it’s free is that there’s, like somebody else off to the side who’s paying. But it’s not like when a TV ad, it’s a different kind of ad they’re, paying to modify your behavior because you’re being constantly readed and you’re, and then what you see the ads you see, the feed you get is constantly adjusted right.

Using techniques that have been established by scientific research for over a century to get you addicted and then to get you to change a little bit right – and you know the problem with that – is that addiction has consequences. It makes people cranky, it makes them irritable and when we talk about bullying, it’s a side effect of this process. You know so until the companies can change their business model to something else.

This is going to keep on happening, and that doesn’t mean the good stuff. On social media isn’t real, it is but there’s this other machine behind the scenes that is really doing a lot of damage, Wow yeah yeah. Well, we talked earlier in hot topics about online bullying. Why is it that more hasn’t been done to control or to get rid of some of this behavior online yeah? You know it’s a funny thing, so I’m a Silicon Valley guy, I do companies, I love Silicon Valley and all my friends there, don’t let their kids use the products that we yeah and you know as a father, I’m trying to cut a middle ground cuz.

I don’t, I don’t want to create a rebellious kid. I want them to find their own lessons, but you know it really comes down to this stupid business model. You know like as long as anytime. Two people connect. The only way we make money is, if there’s a third person off to the side, sometimes like a weird intelligence warfare unit reporting to mr. Putin, but whoever it is. There’S always somebody out there.

There’S always somebody out there trying to get into the middle of your business and it makes you a little nervous. It makes you a little sad. It makes you anxious. It makes you insecure, but that’s part of the game see every addict. Has that problem. Every single addict goes to that cycle, whether it’s an drug or gambling. That’S always part of the deal yeah. So what do we do? Yeah? Well, okay, here’s what I’m asking people to do.

I know a lot of people feel like they couldn’t possibly quit, and I know a lot of people are addicted and I know there’s no place to go and all your friends are there and your family photos and all that I realize I’m in a way asking For something hopeless and yet all it takes – is a small minority of the country to get off this thing just to get some perspective to open up the conversation. Look, we have a president who’s addicted.

I don’t know if any of you knew him in the old days. I knew him before he had. He didn’t used to be quite as insecure, quite as cranky, quite as quite looking for a fight all the time. That’S his addiction talking all right, and so the thing is: what’s he addicted to power, he’s a social leader and a lot of other things? Well, he always is addicted to power. Power isn’t the same kind of thing, because power isn’t playing a deliberate game with you see social behind-the-scenes that companies like Twitter and Facebook there’s actually computer programs playing a game with you, [ Laughter, ] I’d, say he’s more addicted to lying than he used to be.

I think he’s always been a bit of us. He’S always had a bit of that thing about him, but I you know honestly like this is this is his addiction talking, and this is going to keep on happening until we can see, and you know, the other thing I want to say is young people. They have to the greatest gift that you can have for yourself is self-knowledge and until you can at least experience life outside of the manipulation machine, you can’t know yourself as well, so at least while you’re young take six months off this stuff, and then you can Decide, I don’t know you, I don’t know what’s best for you, but you have six months is a very long time and I, I think everything they’re saying is 100 % valid.

But what what do you say to someone like me? I mean I met my husband on Twitter, our so there are the good things are totally real. Nobody would deny that and see. This is what so, it’s like a sandwich of good and bad, but the thing is, we don’t need the bad stuff. So yeah, I’m asking you it’s a huge investment six months to learn about yourself. I know it’s a lot. You know I all I can say is, I think if you do it, you’ll really find it.

You know thanks, but but there are some bad things and they happened in the last election with Facebook and Twitter and the interference from Russia yeah. You know how do we doing squat to prevent it from happening? You know – and you know why it’s because, as long as the whole system is run on this like manipulation in secret, it’s like rolling out a red carpet to all the worst people in the world.

You know and honestly, a lot of it a lot of the folks that the companies are good people they’re, my friends and they’re, doing their best to pick. You know, do little tiny changes like they got it rid of the fake people, but they can. You have to come back is that yeah yeah thanks Jerry linear members of the audience honey y’all are getting the boy. Thank you.

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